Foodie Friday…Corn Flake Salmon

This recipe courtesy of my sister, Mariellen, who shared it with me when I couldn’t figure out what to serve when my book club came over. It was pretty yummy!

  • Whole salmon
  • Corn Flakes, crushed
  • Butter, 3 or 4 pats
  • Milk (whole), approx 1/2 cup
  • Garlic Powder
  • S&P
  • Fresh dill sprigs
  • Place the salmon in an oven proof dish. Pour a little bit of milk over the whole salmon)…enough to wet it all, but don’t drown. Sprinkle garlic powder lightly over the salmon.

  • Crush Corn Flakes over whole salmon. Add pats of butter…depending on how big the salmon is, but it’s usually 3-4 pats (Okay, I may have added more butter…but that never ruined a dish) Salt & Pepper.
    Place dill sprigs on top.

  • Cook for 20/25 mins at 350 degrees.

  • Slice & serve with salad or green veggie and yummy bread or another starch.
I made little no-cook cheesecakes with fresh berries for dessert…pretty!

Bon Appetit!

best group of women…even if it’s a little blurry…still working on those selfie skills

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No Strangers Here…Solo Travel…Kind of?

There are no strangers here;
only friends you haven’t yet met….William Butler Yeats

When I was in Paris recently I was often asked if I liked to travel alone. Actually I get asked that quite a bit everywhere I go and here at home. The answer is a little complicated. I love traveling with people who are as adventurous and outgoing as I am, spontaneous or just love hanging out and enjoying some quiet time. I have lots of friends who are married, though, and sometimes they can’t join me on my travels and therefore I do travel alone….kind of!

When I was first faced with the question of “travel or don’t travel” due to my new single-dom the answer was a resounding “TRAVEL!” “Don’t travel” was never part of the conversation. It was a little weird and a bit of an adjustment, but I made the most of it and have been to some awesome places by myself….but it’s always more fun to share the experiences with someone. That’s where the “kind of” comes in.

Since I’ve been doing home exchanges, and traveling alone, I’ve met some really great people and it’s opened up my world in a way I never imagined. Case in point, this last trip to Paris.

Sure, I traveled over to Paris by myself, but…

  • I stayed with my new friend, Caroline…who had stayed with me back in November, so I never came back to an empty place. There was someone to share my adventures with….and hear about her day.

  • Monday night, one of my neighbor’s, Ted, and his daughter, Dory, happened to be visiting Paris at the same time so we had dinner in the shadow of the Eiffel Tower. (check out Dory’s youtube channel…she’s got an amazing voice!)

  • Tuesday I booked a dinner in a Haussmann apartment with Bon Appetour, (the Parisian equivalent of EatWith here in the U.S.), so I met some new friends and didn’t dine alone.

how cool is this building..and apartment below that I had the privilege of dining in?

  • Wednesday was dinner with some friends, Dominique, Alain & Thomas, that I had met back in 2012 through my friend here, Renee. Again, didn’t dine alone.

  • Thursday I was in Chartres most of the day and had a big lunch, so didn’t even have dinner.
  • Friday Caroline and I dined at her home out on her lovely patio, before heading over to St. Chappelle for a violin concert of Pachelbel’s Cannon & Vivaldi’s Four Seasons. Afterwards, she walked home and I went over to my favorite little corner bistro, St Regis, on the Île Saint-Louis, and because you’re so close to each other on those bistro chairs I met a lovely couple next to me, who, believe it or not, the woman was from Tustin originally…and they live in Alameda up in the bay area where my best friend Mary Kay lives….what are the chances!!
the view from Caroline’s balcony

  • Saturday Caroline got some last minute comp tickets for Saturday Night Fever, the musical, at a local theater, so we grabbed a quick bite with her friend at Dupont Versailles Brasserie across from the venue….where I finally had my escargot..yummy! Another fun night…even if the show was in French, the music was English and you can pretty much follow the story of Saturday Night Fever.
vintage pic of Dupont Versailles Brasserie

So, that’s my complicated answer about traveling alone….by meeting people and arranging dinners along the way you get the best of both worlds…wandering alone by day, having dinner and catching up with friends, old and new by night.

Of course the icing on the cake of this trip was stopping in NY to see my favorite son and daughter-in-law….pizza Monday in Brooklyn with their fun friends!

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Funny Monday…Caterpillars

I want to be like a caterpillar.
Eat a lot.
Sleep for awhile.
Wake up beautiful!

Now, that’s not too much to ask, right? Thanks to Gina for this one!

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Foodie Friday…Trevor’s at the Tracks

As promised, here’s a quick review of Trevor’s at the Tracks in San Juan Capistrano. It’s a really good restaurant that I’d recommend….take the train and make it a real adventure!

there’s a really big outdoor patio with large wrap-around bar
there’s plenty of seating indoors too…like this cozy seating hallway, as well as a wine cellar table and two rooms for private events

they even have this adorable bakery

We started out with some good guac and chips…and cocktails…

Val had this pretty pink cocktail
Jan and I had the Garden Greyhound…deeelish!

….moved on to dinner…

Val’s Ahi Poke Nachos…so good! Fresh Tuna | Avocado | Scallion | Nori Seaweed | Sesame-Soy Reduction | Sesame Seeds | Wonton Chips
Jan’s Snappin’ Tacos…she loved them! Blackened Local Red Snapper | Costa Rican Lizano Slaw | Crema Mexicana | Avocado
My Fig & Fungi Flatbread (say that 3 times fast!) It was a lot and I only had about half…I’d split this or have as an appetizer…so good! Fig Tapenade | Goat Cheese | Caramelized Onions | Mushrooms | Balsamic Glaze

We were all too full for dessert, so I can’t tell you much, except that when Val was here the first time she and her mom had the peach cobbler, served in a little cast iron pan and said it was soooo good! They also have a warm cookie with ice cream, also served in cast iron that I’ll have to save room for next time I go. All in all a great meal, great ambiance, great people watching and lovely atmosphere…all of it amplified by the adventure of taking the train to dinner! Can’t wait to go again!

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Memories of Love for Sale

If you’ve been to Paris before June of 2015 you, most likely, saw this scene on the Pont des Arts (Bridge of Arts)…tangible expressions of love that many people, mostly tourists, love to become a part of by attaching their own lock. There were even lock vendors waiting to pounce on the honeymooners and lovers excited to leave a piece of themselves and become part of Paris. I have to admit, it looked pretty cool & colorful, and it was fun reading all the names and places of those who had partaken of the love-fest.

this pic is from my 2012 trip…when the locks hadn’t completely taken over

Unfortunately, what they didn’t know is that the bridge was buckling under all that weight…even having to close for a bit in 2014 due to damage. So, what to do? The Deputy Mayor of Paris decided back in 2015 that, for safety reasons, the padlocks would all have to be removed…and replaced with plexiglass panels, thus restoring the beautiful view of the Seine and the Île de la Cité beyond. I think the native Parisians, for the most part were happy. But what would become of all those locks? Will they just throw them in the local dump or melt them down to be recycled?

Nope…they’re going to auction them off…and you can get in on the action! The auction takes place this Saturday, May 13th and here’s a link to the website if you want to own a little piece of Paris love. They’ll be sold in little bunches affixed to cobblestones or wood bases…or buy a whole panel, although that shipping charge would be sky-high!

…and the real bonus?…all the proceeds will go to organizations supporting refugees. “All these benefits will be entirely devoted to actions of solidarity and support for refugees that we welcome on the Parisian territory,” said Bruno Julliard, the Deputy Mayor. It’s a win-win! You get a little piece of history, while helping those in need. Let the bidding begin!

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Train Travel…& San Juan Capistrano

I’m usually ready to get back to my home and sleeping in my bed when I return from my travels, but there’s one thing that totally bums me out when I get back to Orange County….cars! I actually like long car rides to a destination, but I hate that I get in my car to go to the store, to work, to anywhere. Okay, sure I could walk to work or the grocery store, but let’s face it, nobody does and it’s not as interesting as doing the same in Paris or New York.

cool, old rotunda at the Santa Ana train station
…and a cool old clock

So, the cure for the public transportation blues….take a train ride down to San Juan Capistrano for dinner! That’s what I did last Thursday with my friends, Val & Jan. I had seen Val the week before and she had mentioned this really good restaurant right at the train tracks in San Juan Capistrano and said we should go sometime. No time like the present!

I picked Jan up at 3:00, met Val at the train, took the 3:46 train, two stops to San Juan Capistrano, which took 1/2 hour (much quicker than the afternoon traffic) and voila, the adventure started!

the quirky, iconic Swallows Inn…been there forever

We walked around and slipped into this cool antique store, did a bit of shopping in the quaint little town, took a few pics of the mission and found a new place to take cooking classes, which I’ll be doing soon. We were starting to get hungry, so wandered back to have dinner at Trevor’s at the Tracks…and it was soooo good! I’ll be reviewing that here this foodie friday, so stay tuned! Who knew there was so much to do and see in SJC?!

no class this night

After our fabulous dinner we walked over to check out a wine bar that we had passed earlier…and then just walked around the adorable Los Rios Historic District. The stores were all closed, but it’s so cute….just one more reason to go back! (oh…and there’s a petting zoo for the little ones that I’ll be going to in a few years!)

It was time to hop back on the 8:20 train and were were home by 9:15. So, from start to finish it was about six & a half hours, but it seemed like so much longer…and what a fun week-day/school-night adventure! I can’t wait to do it again! I’m thinking of just taking the train some morning down there to have breakfast and check out those shops that were closed…just because I can.

It renewed my faith in public transportation here in Orange County and I’m looking forward to heading up to LA on the train next month for my niece’s high school graduation…and hopefully sometime this summer for a “staycation”. I love the train up to LA…passing all that traffic on the 5 Fwy….reading, napping and just thankful that someone else is doing the driving for me!

Take the train…you’ll love it!

took a little afternoon jaunt to Disney’s California Adventure on Wednesday with friends…FUN WEEK!

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Motivational Monday…Experiences

 “A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to it’s old dimensions”…Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.

I love this saying because it’s so true! Not all experiences are good ones, but every experience is a learning opportunity. You get to choose how you react and how it shapes your world.

(I’ll have a couple of fun new experiences coming up on the blog this week…stay tuned!)

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Magnificent May Monday

GOOD MORNING! No matter how good or bad your life is, wake up every morning thankful that you still have one.

I don’t think it can be stressed enough how gratitude in your life makes everything better!

I encourage you to watch this video of a sweet 101 year old man and his secrets to a long life. It’s about 5 minutes, but skip to the end to see his philosophy of living every day in the moment.

Have a FABULOUS, grateful week…can you believe it’s already May?!

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Foodie Friday…Le Tripot, Chartres, Loire Valley

beautiful Chartres Cathedral

Hopefully my posts about my week in Paris won’t be too numerous/boring…but I just had to do a foodie Friday about a memorable meal I had on a day trip to the beautiful town of Chartres…an hour and a half train ride from Paris.

the beautiful Chartres Cathedral

Okay, so you know there are soooo many great places to have a meal in Paris itself, but I tend to want to just wander the streets when I’m there and happen upon a bistro or cafe that will satiate my hunger. I know, not very adventuresome for someone who likes “pretentious food” and trying new restaurants…but that’s just the way it’s been the few times I’ve vacationed in Paris. …and let’s face it, the bistros and cafes have pretty decent food…and ambiance.

blooms out in Chartre too

So, I thought I’d try to have a memorable meal while in Chartres for the day. I went to trusty Trip Advisor, asked around, and found Le Tripot. Their website is, as expected, entirely in French and google translate couldn’t help me with that. So, I emailed the restaurant, asked for a lunch reservation and voilà, reservation made! The place was adorable and the food was so good.

how cute is this little sign out front

They offered me two amuse bouche…one was an amazingly tasty tomato, cucumber little cup that had so much flavor I could have had an entire bowl. It was very much like gazpacho. The second tiny plate was a trio of marinated olives, parmesan crisp and a date wrapped in bacon…all very good! Sidenote….there were a few other tables of diners and they did not receive these little delicacies…hmmmm, single woman dining alone, maybe they thought I was a food critic…haha? Whatever the reason, I appreciated and enjoyed them so much!

I know it sounds lame, but I had a hankering for steak and knew this would be my big meal for the day, so what the hell. This was no ordinary steak. Everything sounds better in French…”Entrecôte de bœuf à la plancha, sauce de réduction de Porto rouge et éclats de foie gras de canard”…but thankfully they also included the English equivalent…”Rib steak of beef a la plancha, sauce of reduction of red Porto and cracks of duck foie gras” I love foie gras…don’t judge!

delectable little “cracks” of foie gras

It’s ridiculous how much flavor these small “cracks” of foie gras lend to the steak that was perfectly cooked, and the red wine reduction was fab….as was the potato stack. (yes, I ate the whole thing…did I mention I hadn’t had breakfast and been walking for a couple of hours?)

The French have their cheese at the end of the meal, so ‘when in Rome…or Chartres’…I had “Crottin de chèvre chaud au miel de foret du Perche sur toast et sa salade’…aka “Hot goat milk cheese on slice of bread with honey and salad” …melt in your mouth good.

This shows the charm of the painted stone walls before the restaurant became packed with people by the time I left. It’s not too fancy and I’d recommend a meal here if you’re ever in Chartres. My only “critique” would be that the lighting is a bit modern for this adorable space. Sure, it was a “normal” meal…not so French, but I loved it and would go back.

Sorry, I had no room for dessert to share here with you….but I did take some pics as I wandered through charming Chartres. If you have the time, take a day trip to Chartres.

A trip to Chartres wouldn’t be complete without a quiet, peaceful walk to La Maison Picassiette via the town cemetery. I know, may sound odd, but this is the recommended route if you’re walking from the Cathedral up to the eclectic, funky house. Is it weird to call a cemetery beautiful? It was expertly manicured and it was interesting to see the generations of families that were laid to rest here.

La Maison Picassiette…a house made of shards of collected glass, etc.
the bedroom
closeup of the collected found items
beautiful little garden in the back
not a bad view on my way back down the hill to the train station

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Paris in Bloom

I went to Paris almost the exact same week of April five years ago and, although it was cathartic and healing back then, this past trip to Paris was so completely different. I still believe, as I did back then, that the best way to see Paris is by wandering the little alleys and back streets, but the biggest difference this time was that Paris was in full bloom…which in hind-sight is literally the difference in my life from then to now.

The weather was dreary and colder five years ago…as was my personal life. In contrast, this time I stayed in the beautiful, cheery home of my new friend, Caroline, the weather was gorgeous, the sun was out and every tree, shrub and flower bed was screaming “Hello Spring, I’m here! Take pictures!” I know it’s stupidly cliche, but Paris was literally calling out to ‘stop and smell the roses/flowers!’ ….and I did…and this experience was magical!

Come and wander with me….

On the way and including The Luxembourg Gardens

you should have seen the people posing in front of this as if taking selfies…

la femmes aux pommes (‘woman with apples’….& really gorgeous flowers behind her!)
more tulips

a few window boxes, but really I just love this colorful little street

On to the Petit and Grand Trianon at Versailles…

I couldn’t get enough of the canopy of trees all over Paris and Versailles
no blooms yet, but can you imagine how spectacular this looks with flowers/greenery draping above

…and back to Paris, wandering near the Île de la Cité and the Tuileries…

if you go to Shakespeare and Company, wander upstairs and get this unique view of Notre Dame

I think this is my favorite pic from this trip….spectacular colors!

This is the edited version…so many more blooms and smells that I didn’t post. Stay tuned for some beautiful blooms in my Foodie Friday from Chartres.

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